The Blog
Welcome to the Nicole Kilday Photography blog — a space for couples planning their wedding in Illinois, Wisconsin, or beyond. Here you’ll find planning tips, real wedding stories, photography advice, and emotional storytelling inspiration designed to help you plan your day with presence, intention, and ease.
How It Felt: The Way I Photograph Weddings (and Why It Matters)
Your wedding isn’t a performance — it’s a story unfolding in real time. My approach to photography blends candid emotion, editorial artistry, and documentary storytelling to capture how it felt, not just how it looked. From quiet moments to golden hour chaos, this post dives into what it’s really like to be photographed by me — human, intentional, and anything but surface level.
The Process: From Inquiry to Friendship
My wedding photography process is built on connection and trust. From the first inquiry to the delivery of your gallery, I’ll guide you through a seamless, heartfelt experience — one that’s calm, intentional, and deeply personal, so your images feel like home.
Build Your Dream Team — And Choose Your Photographer Who Feels Like Home
Your wedding vendors aren’t just a checklist — they’re the heartbeat of your day. From your venue to your photographer, each one plays a role in telling your story. Learn how to build a vendor team that feels like family and how to choose a photographer who not only captures your memories but makes you feel at home in front of the camera.
Serving couples across Illinois, Wisconsin, and beyond — Nicole Kilday Photography captures weddings, elopements, and moments that feel like home. Explore real weddings, planning guides, and photography resources to plan your day with heart.