The Blog

Welcome to the Nicole Kilday Photography blog — a space for couples planning their wedding in Illinois, Wisconsin, or beyond. Here you’ll find planning tips, real wedding stories, photography advice, and emotional storytelling inspiration designed to help you plan your day with presence, intention, and ease.

How It Felt: The Way I Photograph Weddings (and Why It Matters)

How It Felt: The Way I Photograph Weddings (and Why It Matters)

Your wedding isn’t a performance — it’s a story unfolding in real time. My approach to photography blends candid emotion, editorial artistry, and documentary storytelling to capture how it felt, not just how it looked. From quiet moments to golden hour chaos, this post dives into what it’s really like to be photographed by me — human, intentional, and anything but surface level.

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The Wedding Day Timeline Builder That Helps You Plan Your Day Around Light, Presence, and Real Life

The Wedding Day Timeline Builder That Helps You Plan Your Day Around Light, Presence, and Real Life

Since 2016, I’ve used this exact timeline system to plan weddings around light, emotion, and presence. Now, it’s available as a smart, editable tool that builds your day around your sunset time and first look choice—helping you stay focused on what really matters: how it felt.

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Illinois & Wisconsin Wedding Photographer | I Know What I Bring to the Table

Illinois & Wisconsin Wedding Photographer | I Know What I Bring to the Table

I’m not your average photographer — I’m the whole fxking package. As a seasoned wedding photographer serving Illinois, Wisconsin, and Destination couples, I’m here to capture the raw, unposed, and in-between moments that make your love story yours. I come as myself and expect you to do the same. My work is about presence over perfection, emotion over aesthetics, and storytelling that feels like you.

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Nina & David’s Fall Elegant & Timeless Wedding

Nina & David’s Fall Elegant & Timeless Wedding

Umm, hello Mr. & Mrs. Babb 😍 Nina and David’s day was everything timeless fall weddings are made of — elegance, emotion, and a whole lot of joy. Their ceremony took place at the historic Baker Memorial United Methodist Church in St. Charles, IL, where candlelight and soaring architecture set the stage for their vows. Afterward, family and friends gathered at Venuti’s Banquet Hall in Addison, IL, for a celebration that can only be described as unforgettable. From Mama Mia on the dance floor and Nonna showing off her moves, to Nina’s dad dancing on a chair and David’s little brother bringing everyone to tears during speeches — every moment overflowed with love, laughter, and legacy. These two radiate a light that’s impossible to ignore, and we can’t wait to see the story they’ll continue to write together.

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The Experience: Not Just a Vendor with a Camera

The Experience: Not Just a Vendor with a Camera

Your wedding photography experience should feel like home — calm, intentional, and full of connection. With Nicole Kilday Photography, you’ll have a photographer who feels like a friend, guiding you through every step to create images that don’t just look beautiful but feel like you.

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The Process: From Inquiry to Friendship

The Process: From Inquiry to Friendship

My wedding photography process is built on connection and trust. From the first inquiry to the delivery of your gallery, I’ll guide you through a seamless, heartfelt experience — one that’s calm, intentional, and deeply personal, so your images feel like home.

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Engagement Session Ideas That Feel Like You

Engagement Session Ideas That Feel Like You

Your engagement session isn’t just a box to check — it’s your story in motion. From golden-hour beach walks and adventurous bike rides to cozy nights at home or champagne pops downtown, these engagement session ideas are crafted to feel like you. As an Illinois and Wisconsin documentary engagement photographer, I’ll help you plan a session that’s as unique as your love — authentic, comfortable, and full of nostalgia.

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Build Your Dream Team — And Choose Your Photographer Who Feels Like Home

Build Your Dream Team — And Choose Your Photographer Who Feels Like Home

Your wedding vendors aren’t just a checklist — they’re the heartbeat of your day. From your venue to your photographer, each one plays a role in telling your story. Learn how to build a vendor team that feels like family and how to choose a photographer who not only captures your memories but makes you feel at home in front of the camera.

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Let’s Make Your Dream Wedding Photography Happen: Flexible Payment Plans That Work for You

Let’s Make Your Dream Wedding Photography Happen: Flexible Payment Plans That Work for You

Your memories matter—and your payment plan should reflect that. Here’s how we can make your dream wedding photography happen with flexibility, ease, and zero stress.

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Serving couples across Illinois, Wisconsin, and beyond — Nicole Kilday Photography captures weddings, elopements, and moments that feel like home. Explore real weddings, planning guides, and photography resources to plan your day with heart.